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A Junior High School Student Was Bullied to Death by Many High School Students.

Father Of The Student: I have defended the motherland for fifteen years and only one child💔💔💔

A junior high school student at Yugou Middle School in Lingbi County, Suzhou City, Anhui Province was beaten to death by six or seven high school students in his dormitory. The father cried out: I have defended the motherland for fifteen years, and there is only one child... Just now, on April 2, Lingbi, Anhui. The police reported that a junior high school student was bullied to death by several high school students on the Internet: 14-year-old students of the same grade clashed over trivial matters, no other students participated, and the suspect has been brought under control. I hope the truth will be revealed soon and the murderer will be severely punished!

This happened in a middle school in Suzhou, Anhui Province. A junior high school student fell helplessly under the fists of six high school students, just for the rent of 300 yuan. Life is such a fragile thing. A few minutes of sadism can make a young child lose the rest of his life, and a soldier can't help but blame him. At this moment, his sky collapsed.

Children are always the most important thing in a family, but some people's children are children, and some people's children are actions. When they are cruel, human nature loses its meaning in his eyes. What kind of responsibility should the six high school students bear when a junior high school student was beaten to death? I really hope this is a misunderstanding, and my fingers are not shaking. It hurts not only the life of a child but also the belief of a family. According to the information provided by the victim: they are ordinary parents who go out to work. To provide a better environment for their children, he applied for a separate dormitory from the school and paid 800 yuan to the school.

Fighting in middle school, youthful blood, youthful vigour, you and I have experienced it, but in this incident, the nature has really changed, several people forced the child to kneel down, and threatened to let him call his parents, such an insult Language, just ask! Can adults like you and me do it? Such a child, who is only sixteen or seventeen years old, is originally kind, but what went wrong in the link made them so cruel and infuriating. I want to ask, am I really old and don’t understand why the social environment is so good, but the darkest things happen on campus?

In the final analysis, I think it is a problem of education, that there is no correct guidance from parents in the link of getting along with people, but these most basic life skills are handed over to Douyin and TV dramas so that children are immersed in such an environment under the influence of their ears and eyes. The world is over, and their distorted view of communication has been completed, and they keep saying, kneel? In the 21st century, except for Chinese New Year, who has kneeled before? Will his parents tell him to kneel when he bullies others at home? Could it be that the teacher would teach him in class that a man is upright, and if he is upset, will he ask others to kneel down for him? We didn't establish good values and told him how to do them by practising them. Instead, the current unscrupulous TV series, Douyin Poisoned Chicken Soup, planted wrong values in their hearts under the whitewash of the media

Zero tolerance of school violence requires not only how to raise children, but also the need to crack down on condoning and covering up school violence, adding an extra level to the crime of concealing and covering up school violence. So many people openly engage in this kind of thing in school, and it can be seen that it is not as simple as once or twice, which shows that there is a problem with the school environment. When something happened, the school and other related parties tried their best to cover up the facts, which caused the perpetrators to act recklessly. After all, the school covered up and the parents solved it.

Therefore, we should strictly investigate and punish the perpetrators according to the law, not only severely punishing the perpetrators, but also making them pay the price. It is also necessary to strictly punish those who cover up and cover-up. The schools and parents who cover up each other should be held accountable and let them pay the price for their promotion of evil.

In the entire incident, in the ten-minute-long video, there is only endless humiliation of lowering the bottom line. School violence has always been a grey area. On the one hand, it is neglected by many parents and schools, on the other hand, it may be difficult for schools to get involved in the centre of the incident if they really want to manage it. But in this campus violence, the attitude of the city's high school is very outrageous. Throughout the announcement, there is only what the school has done and how the school has dealt with it, but it has never mentioned the current situation of the students. The school's attitude is chilling.

But the most chilling thing is probably the last sentence in the announcement. Netizens said: The school advocates that everyone not spread the video to avoid secondary harm. But from another perspective, without the spread of the Internet, would the school pay attention to this incident? What will happen to this student's future studies and life? The attitude of the school in this sentence is interesting. I am afraid that it is open to question whether its focus is for the students, or whether it is for the school's own interests to maintain the school's image. Based on the attitude of the school in the entire announcement, I may be more inclined to the latter. From the standpoint of the victim, at the current stage, he certainly does not want the videos to be spread on the Internet, and these videos may indeed cause him trouble. But if he looks back after a few years or ten years, he may be more inclined to expose the video.

At the current stage, the behaviour of these students has risen to such a level that if it continues to drag on, the consequences may be disastrous. And these are exactly the problems of all the current grey violence incidents. The perpetrators do what they want, and the victims dare not show their faces. Whether it is school violence or sexual assault and rape, in the guidance of public opinion in society, this kind of result is all shown. The prototype of the movie "Su Yuan" is. The father of the victimized little girl cried in front of the camera and said, "Obviously we did nothing wrong, why are we the ones who didn't dare to show up in the end?" Life in the Shadows". As for the perpetrator, after a few years, he returned to that small town and continued to live happily ever after.

Are you talking about what to do when you encounter bullying?

Child

1. Keep calm: Don't suffer timidly, let alone control violence with violence, but solve problems rationally and tactfully.

2. Witty call for help: Call for help from passers-by or use abnormal actions to attract the attention of people around you.

3. Life comes first: Pay attention to strategies, keep evidence of bullying, and protect yourself according to the law.

4. Dare to tell adults (relatives and teachers)

5. Remember the contact information of relevant important personnel (relatives, teachers, and the police), and seek help at critical moments.

Parents

1. Communicate and confirm the situation with the teacher, discuss the solution, and pay attention to avoid secondary harm to the child during the process.

2. Communicate and discuss directly with children. Avoid shame and embarrassment that children are reluctant to mention. Encourage the child at the right time, let the child trust and give the child confidence, and you can get your assistance at any time.

3. Temporarily put aside other affairs to accompany the child, give the child enough sense of security, and stabilize the child's emotions. No matter what kind of behaviour and state the child shows or is unwilling to tell the specific situation, don't reprimand him for being cowardly, but be patient and accompany him.

4. If the child is psychologically afraid of going to school, afraid of going out, anxious about making friends, autistic, self-injured or even suicidal, contact a professional for counselling and help. 5. If bullying and violence often occur on the way to and from school, pick up or arrange for older students to accompany the child to and from school until the problem is resolved. 6. Pay attention to the child's personality, and cultivate the child's ability and confidence to communicate and get along with others.

How should parents of bullies treat their children?

1. Discuss school violence with your children, tell them clearly that the school, teachers, society, and laws do not allow such behaviours, and let them distinguish right from wrong during the discussion.

2. Discuss with the children the possible negative impact on the victims, and let the children empathize and experience their feelings.

3. Accompany the child to sincerely apologize to the other party.

4. Implement an effective and non-violent punishment on the child that is in line with his age and physical and mental development, and can also cooperate with the school to punish the child.

5. Strengthen the control of the child's participation in activities and whereabouts, find out whether he has interacted with bad youth in society, cooperate with the school to correct the child's behaviour, regulate the child's words and deeds, and strengthen the child's transformation.

6. Keep in touch with the school teachers to keep abreast of the children's changes.

7. Praise the child's changes in time to promote the gradual development of children's good habits.

8. Prohibit children from playing violent games, persuade children and parents not to play violent games, and ensure that children do not see violence among family members.